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Learn from Their Mistakes: The Personal Life vs Career Balance Dilemma
In recruitment, we see it all. From the overly enthusiastic cover letters still showing [Enter Company Name Here], to CVs completely misaligned with the sectors we actually recruit for (pro tip: if you’re going to cold email a company, at least look at their website first). But every so often, we get a real case study worth sharing—one that offers a cautionary tale for jobseekers trying to balance personal life and professional growth.
Case Study
Let’s talk about one such candidate. For obvious reasons, all identifying details have been removed, but the lesson is very real.
This candidate applied for a position that they were actually a good fit for. I’d give them a 75% match. Not bad at all. The issue? Their employment history. Four jobs in three years. And to hiring managers, that doesn’t scream adaptability—it screams unreliability.
Insight
There’s a sort of unspoken guideline when it comes to how long you stay in a role:
- 6 months = You passed probation.
- 1 year = You’ve grasped the full responsibilities.
- 2 years = You’ve become effective.
- 3 years = You’ve made a measurable, positive impact.
Example
Employers like to see experience, yes—but not necessarily from multiple employers. Imagine hiring for an accounting technician role. You have two candidates, each with five years’ experience and IATI certification:
- Candidate #1: Has worked with three different companies.
- Candidate #2: Has stayed with one employer, rising through the ranks from administrator to accounts assistant.
All else being equal, who do you trust more? For most employers, it’s Candidate #2. They’re loyal, proven, and likely to justify any training or investment you make in them. Candidate #1? There’s a risk they’ll jump ship the moment something shinier comes along.
So, back to my candidate—his CV raised red flags. But when I spoke to him, the reasons made sense. He’d relocated three times in that period, and each move was valid. I decided to advocate for him. Unfortunately, the client wasn’t interested. Even with an explanation, their first impression stuck. And with a pile of other CVs to consider, they simply moved on.
Here’s the takeaway:
Before leaving a job too quickly, think about how it looks to the next person reading your CV. Employers aren’t just reading what you did—they’re reading into why you left. And while personal life and circumstances matter, timing matters just as much.
If you’re under a year in a job, think carefully about jumping ship. If you feel stuck in your current role, consider whether internal progression is possible. And if not, maybe it’s still worth staying long enough to solidify your experience.
Career growth isn’t always about leaps and promotions. Sometimes, it’s about taking a small step forward just to find better footing.